ASK FATHER: If a priest explains away a mortal sin, and the penitent believes him, is the absolution valid?

From a reader…

QUAERITUR:

If a priest explains away a mortal sin in confession in such away that neither the priest nor the penitent believes any more than the mortal sin is even a sin, is the confession still valid as long as the priest absolves with the required form?

So, objectively, it is a mortal sin.  What is the subjective dimension?

Would the absolution be valid, as described above? Not necessarily.

The correct form of absolution alone does not guarantee a valid absolution. The penitent must have at least imperfect contrition (attrition – fear of Hell rather than more perfect sorrow for offending God) and a genuine purpose of amendment (according to the Council of Trent).

If a priest wrongly assures a penitent that an objectively grave sin is not sinful, two possibilities might be teased out.

First, the penitent acts in good faith, genuinely repents of other sins, and has a firm purpose of amendment. The absolution could still be valid despite the erroneous moral advice.  (I’d hate to be that priest at judgment time.)

Second, the penitent – not really being wholly convinced but because of what the priest said knowingly doesn’t repent of the grave sin, intending to continue committing it – oh my.  The necessary disposition is absent, and absolution is invalid.

NB: A priest cannot make a sin permissible by declaring it so. (Neither can a priest or a pope make something permissible into a sin by declaring that it is.)  Father’s erroneous counsel does not automatically invalidate absolution, but neither can the correct formula compensate for a penitent’s deliberate refusal to repent.

As for a priest who deliberately explains away grave sin in the confessional, he has grotesquely misunderstood his office. The confessional is a tribunal of mercy for the guilty, not a white washing service. The confessor is charged with helping sinners obtain forgiveness, not persuading them that they have nothing to be forgiven for. Such a priest risks sending souls away falsely informed, malformed, in spiritual peril.

I am mindful of the dense and ever useful Act of Faith:

O my God, I firmly believe that Thou art one God in Three Divine Persons, Father, Son and Holy Ghost. I believe that Thy Divine Son became Man, and died for our sins, and that He will come to judge the living and the dead. I believe these and all the truths which the Holy Catholic Church teaches, because Thou hast revealed them, Who canst neither deceive nor be deceived.

God cannot be deceived!   If a person has a doubt about whether or not what he is thinking about doing is a good thing to do, he shouldn’t do it.

Let’s spin that out a bit, because it is at the heart of this scenario.

We should not deliberately act while entertaining a genuine, unresolved practical doubt about whether the contemplated action is sinful. To do so is shows a willingness to offend God, even when one is uncertain whether the particular action actually violates His law.  St. Paul gives us the scriptural foundation: Omne autem, quod non est ex fide, peccatum est….For all that is not of faith is sin.” (Romans 14:23)  In context, Paul is discussing someone who doubts whether he may lawfully eat certain foods. The moral principle extends beyond dietary questions, of course. When conscience warns that an action may be sinful, one must resolve that practical doubt before proceeding.

St. Thomas Aquinas explains the binding character of conscience, including an erroneous conscience (STh I-II, q. 19, aa. 5–6). Someone who chooses to act against what he judges to be God’s law sins by that very choice, even if his understanding of the particular law is mistaken.

So, we mustn’t knowingly act with an unresolved practical doubt of conscience.  Neither do we have to reach absolute certainty about every moral decision. Moral certainty, including that attained through sound moral principles and trustworthy counsel, suffices.

There is an important spiritual point here, especially if someone is tempted to shop around for a confessor who will give the desired answer. The question must be, “What does God require of me?”, rather than “Which priest will tell me that what I want to do is not a sin?”

A confessor who dispels genuine doubt by sound teaching serves the penitent well. One who merely silences the warning of conscience, without establishing the truth, risks becoming an accomplice in self-deception.

When there is a genuine reason to suspect that a contemplated action offends God, establish its moral lawfulness before doing it.  That is ordinary, applied prudence, grounded in reverence for God and concern for one’s eternal salvation.

 

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ROME 26/10 – Day 30: With apologies to the Bard

ROME 26/10 – Day 30: With apologies to the BardROMAE, die XXX Octobris, A.D. MMXXVI.

Sol hodie in Urbe Aeterna oritur hora sexta et minutis triginta octo, occidit hora septima decima et minutis novem. Campana “Ave Maria”, secundum horarium Curiae Romanae, pulsabitur hora septima decima et minutis triginta.  In ecclesia Sanctissimae Trinitatis Peregrinorum et Convalescentium autem, secundum solis occasum, dimidia hora post occasum solis, id est hora septima decima et minutis triginta novem.

Hodie memoriam recolimus S. Germani, Episcopi Capuani, qui pro unitate Ecclesiae strenue laboravit. S. Gregorius Magnus narrat Sanctum Benedictum animam Germani, ab angelis in globo igneo susceptam, in caelum ascendentem vidisse!

Dum dies autumnales breviores fiunt et tenebrae citius descendunt, meminerimus lucem aeternitatis numquam occidere.

Pace Gulielme! 

In me vides languescentem frigore autumnum,
Cum paucae frondes pendent nudis in ramis,
Et choros ventis contremiscentes ramorum,
Ubi quondam aves cantabant dulcibus ludis.

….

A lovely campanile catching the last rays of the sun…

ROME 26/10 – Day 30: With apologies to the Bard

Yes… that is a bear.  The tiny church once held the remains of St. Gregory Naziazen.

ROME 26/10 – Day 30: With apologies to the Bard

ACTION SHOT!

ROME 26/10 – Day 30: With apologies to the Bard

A shot in the long corridor outside the “Chamber of Representatives” They call it “transatlantic” because it hearkens to the ocean going passenger ships of yore.

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Who can tell us what the battle is in this painting?  Anyone?  Right click for larger and open in a new tab.

ROME 26/10 – Day 30: With apologies to the Bard

Meanwhile…

Interim, motus ad lusorem cum militibus nigris pertinent. Scaccus mattus, scilicet mors regis, quattuor in motis veniat.

ROME 26/10 – Day 30: With apologies to the Bard

NB: Detineam explicationes in crastinum, ne vestrae interrumpantur commentationes.

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RIP Patrick Stewart … my competitor!

During toxic theatre COVID one of you readers challenged me to record myself reading all the of the Sonnets of Shakespeare… because that is what Sir Patrick Stewart was doing.

I took up the challenge.  Results varied but I think that now and then I did a better job.

I really wasn’t competing… really.

Rest in peace, Patrick Stewart.  I entrust you to the mercy of your Creator and God.

My link to my recordings of Shakespeare’s Sonnets…. HERE.

Once in while I threw in poems of other authors.  Find them!

And early example when I was getting my feet under me.  Gosh this was a FUN project!  ALL 150 plus some others.  For example HERE

This one seems appropriate:

 

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ROME 26/10 – Day 29: hard to read inscription

ROME 26/10 – Day 29: hard to read inscription

06:37

17:11

17:30

I think that by now you know what is going on with those times.  If you are new, check earlier posts… which you should do anyway, right?  And… come to think of it… how is it possible that you are “new” here?  After all these years of tending this blog….

Speaking of tending the blog, the tech gurus have been active working on the engine that drives this thing.   Right now they are playing with the theme.    I am ambivalent…. no… skeptical?

Today I had a lovely more birthday-y day than yesterday, including a great lunch at a new place which, though it isn’t in my neighborhood, is – I HOPE – going to be a new favorite.  After, I had the chance to have a tour of the Italian equivalent of the House of Representatives, which was fascinating.  I didn’t take photos, for the sake of their security and simple discretion.   I may have some photos from my guide, who took at few.

BTW… the carbonara I had today was the best I had in decades, ever since the really old days at Mozzicone in the Borgo Pio.

I’m tired.  Views of the day.

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My Halloween costume.

ROME 26/10 – Day 29: hard to read inscription

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ASK FATHER: Definition and the duties of a pastoral associate. 

From a reader…

QUAERITUR:

Please send me the definition and the duties of a pastoral associate.

A pastoral associate is an ordained minister, assigned by the bishop, as distinguished from a lay person with some parish job, paid or volunteer, who serves at the will of the pastor.

The associate is a discreet priestly operative charged with preserving the Catholic Faith in a parish whose pastor is determined to improve upon it.

His duties include rescuing discarded statues, hiding tambourines, and introducing Gregorian chant as an exciting innovation recommended by the latest synodal (“walking together”) session.

He must tactfully intercept absurdities from the liturgy planning committee, protect elderly ladies who still pray the Rosary, defend the last useable confessional against conversion into a broom closet, and persuade the pastor that incense is both environmentally sustainable and pastorally inclusive.

Essential qualifications include orthodoxy, a working knowledge of canon law, the ability to smile for long periods of time, and the ability to endure interminable meetings about radical hospitality without throwing anything.

A pastoral associate exercises no authority whatsoever, although he is personally responsible for everything that goes wrong. He may offer suggestions and must remain cheerful when the pastor attributes anything he does to himself and the Renewal Committee.

His compensation consists principally of opportunities for heroic virtue.

His sole recognized right is Christian burial, although even that is not guaranteed, since the pastor of whatever parish he is buried from may prefer a Celebration of Life featuring balloons and interpretive dance.

Note: While in some places the fancy title “parochial vicar” is employed, also heard in the wild are the terms “associate” and “assistant”.  There should be no confusion about these last two, because, in any event, the first three letters are the same.

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ROME 26/10 – Day 28: Natalis Dies

ROME 26/10 – Day 28: Natalis DiesThank you, Lord, for this day.  This is the 301st day of this calendar year.

Thanks to everyone who wished me happy birthday.

On this my natal day, the sun rose at 7:35 in Rome and it set at 17:12.

The Ave Maria Bell was suppose to ring for the Curia at 17:30.

It was the Feast of Sts. Simon and Jude (patron of impossible causes).  I have 1st class relics of BOTH in the Chapel of the Two Trinities back across the pond.

I celebrated Holy Mass today for my parents.  It seemed the right thing to do.

I ask a prayer please also for me, an impossible cause.  My Jesus, mercy.

I was amused by the dictionary.com Word of the Day today.  Not kidding.

ROME 26/10 – Day 28: Natalis Dies

The tomb of the Apostles Simon and Jude in the Vatican Basilica.

Rome 24/10 – Day 28: Impossible causes

White to move and mate in 4.

ROME 26/10 – Day 28: Natalis Dies

Interested in learning?  Try THIS. Right now 70% off for Igor’s birthday… birthday, I say!

Meanwhile…

Good question…

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You knew this had to happen

According to Infovaticana

Reformist groups pressure the Synod to repeal the canon that prevents the ordination of women

Seven international organizations advocating for reforms in the Catholic Church have requested that Cardinal Mario Grech, Secretary General of the Synod of Bishops, repeal three canons of the Code of Canon Law, including canon 1024, which states that “only a baptized male validly receives sacred ordination.” The petition seeks to extend the scope of synodal reforms to an issue directly related to Catholic doctrine on the sacrament of Holy Orders.

The request is contained in a letter addressed to Cardinal Grech, dated October 22, 2026, in response to the report Toward a Synodal Church, prepared by the Synod’s canonical commission. The signatories consider the proposed modifications insufficient and call for a deeper transformation of ecclesiastical governance structures.

The initiative is supported by We Are Church International, Root & Branch, Council of Australasian Catholics, Spirit Unbounded, Catholic Church Reform International, International Church Reform Network, and Association of Catholic Priests, organizations linked to movements promoting changes in the Church’s doctrine, discipline, and governance.

They demand the repeal of canon 1024 and changes to norms on ecclesiastical governance

The most significant request appears on the second page of the letter, where the signatories question the restrictions established by canons 129 §1 and 274 §1 and their connection to canon 1024.

The organizations argue that these provisions maintain a governance structure reserved primarily to clerics and that, by linking certain ecclesiastical responsibilities to the reception of the sacrament of Holy Orders, they exclude women from leadership and ministry roles.

In this context, they explicitly request “the review of canons 129 §1, 274 §1, and 1024 with a view to their repeal,” a demand they reiterate in the final section of the document.

[…]

As expected, the fringe groups of liberal wackos are starting the process of infiltration of synods and other church councils, the goal being to control the decision making all in the hallowed names of synodality (“walking together”) and sensus fidelium.

This is the exact game plan employed by fringe groups in the Anglicans and other Protestant denominations.

All guided by the Holy Spirit, of course.

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ROME 26/10– Day 27: Vigil

ROME 26/10– Day 27: VigilIt was 06:34 when Helios guided his fiery chariot above the horizon in the Roman east.

At 17:13 the solar steeps galloped off into the west.

The curial calendar designated 17:30 as the time for the Ave Maria.

It is the Vigil of Sts. Simon and Jude (if you are using the pre-55 calendar).

From the sacristy of The Parish™ we see that one of the priests is set up for the feria day, some are ready for tomorrow already with red, one has purple for the vigil.

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YOU READERS helped to furnish the red sets.

Walking along today, I saw that the lettering of the street signs is being spiffed up.

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Fun

ROME 26/10– Day 27: Vigil

Black can mate in 4.

ROME 26/10– Day 27: Vigil

NB: I’ll hold comments with solutions ’till the next day so there won’t be “spoilers” for others.

 

 

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Rush: on …what’s going on now

This is years ago….

Play video

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ROME 26/10– Day 26: Rube Goldberg

ROME 26/10– Day 26: Rube GoldbergThere is a lot of “Rome” in this photo. Nasone, sanpietrini, walled-up door, rione sign, mondezzaro sign… have a closer look…
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Did you get it?

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Over Rome the sun did it’s thing at 06:33.

It goes on strike at 17:15.

The Ave Maria Bell is in the 17:30, but that’s not solar time.

Inter alia… it is the Feast of St. Quadragesimus, a subdeacon, who raised a dead man to life.

We need more names like that.

White mates in 4.

ROME 26/10– Day 26: Rube Goldberg

NB: I’ll hold comments with solutions ’till the next day so there won’t be “spoilers” for others.

 

About the goat rodeo in Rome…  I don’t understand the inconsistent spelling… but… more information is coming.

ROME 26/10– Day 26: Rube Goldberg

More proof that the world is upside down…

I think we should put AI in this thing… and on those creepy robotic dogs and then heavily arm them.

What could go wrong?

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